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Managing Holiday Debt
If you spent more than expected this holiday season, you're not alone. Let's explore strategies for minimizing the total cost of holiday debt and starting the new year with confidence.
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Managing Holiday Debt
If you spent more than expected this holiday season, you're not alone. Let's explore strategies for minimizing the total cost of holiday debt and starting the new year with confidence.
Unwrapping Financial Peace
The holidays are a season of giving, joy, and togetherness - but they can also be a season of financial strain. Americans spend an average of $1,300 on holiday-related expenses each year. While this spending often stems from good intentions, it can sometimes result in unplanned debt.
And in January, credit card bills can transform that warm holiday glow into a cold financial reality.
Holiday debt doesn't just disappear like snow in spring. It can stick around for months, creating stress, hindering your financial goals, and draining your wallet with high-interest payments. But it doesn't have to be that way. With the right tools and strategies, you can minimize holiday debt and build a healthier new year.
This week, we'll dive into the heart of holiday debt: how it happens, why it matters, and - most importantly - what you can do about it. We'll explore practical strategies for tackling holiday debt and create a plan for a more financially peaceful holiday season.
What You'll Learn
This week, we'll cover key concepts you need to know about managing holiday debt:
- Understanding the Impact of Holiday Debt - We'll explore how holiday overspending affects your finances, including its hidden costs, such as emotional strain and lost opportunities for savings.
- Paying Down Debt Quickly - From the Debt Snowball and Avalanche methods to budget adjustments and side income, we'll guide you through actionable repayment strategies.
- Debt Consolidation Options - If you're juggling multiple debts, we'll help you evaluate whether consolidation could be the right solution.
- Building a Financial Safety Net - Discover how to prepare for unexpected expenses and avoid holiday debt altogether in the future.
- Managing Financial Stress During the Holidays - Gain practical strategies to minimize financial stress and maintain your mental well-being during the season.
Why This Matters
Holiday debt isn't just a financial problem - it's a stressor that can ripple into your overall well-being. High credit card balances, missed payments, and hefty interest charges can derail your financial goals. The emotional toll can lead to sleepless nights and post-holiday regret.
But by taking control of holiday debt, you can shift the focus from stress to joy. When you manage it wisely, you're not just paying down debt - you're creating room to enjoy next year without financial anxiety.
A Debt-Free Holiday Season Starts Here
Whether you're staring at holiday debt now or looking for ways to avoid it next year, this series is for you. Together, we'll tackle the challenges, celebrate the wins, and build a plan that sets you up for success.
After all, the holidays should be about connection, gratitude, and giving - not juggling credit card statements.
Let's get started!
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Americans spend an average of $1,300 over the holidays each year, often with good intentions of spreading holiday cheer. But come January, the credit card bills can feel like a lump of coal in your financial stocking.
Holiday debt doesn’t just disappear with the decorations - it can linger for months or even years, impacting your financial health, credit score, and peace of mind. Let’s explore how holiday debt affects your finances, the emotional toll it can take, and how to avoid falling into the overspending trap.
The Impact of Holiday Debt
The consequences of holiday debt often stretch far beyond a few extra credit card payments. What starts as a few swipes of a credit card can quickly grow into long-term financial strain.
One of the first areas where holiday debt can make an impact is your credit score. Credit card balances tend to spike during the holidays, and if you’re not able to pay off these balances in full, it can negatively affect your score in several ways:
- Credit Utilization - Credit bureaus look at how much of your available credit you’re using. A good rule of thumb is to keep this ratio below 30%. But with holiday spending, it’s easy to exceed this limit, which can cause your score to drop.
- Missed or Late Payments - Overspending during the holidays can lead to difficulties in making timely payments, especially if you’ve spread your purchases across multiple cards. Late or missed payments can significantly damage your credit score, sometimes staying on your record for up to seven years.
Interest Payments and Financial Security
Holiday debt doesn’t stop at what you spend - interest adds a significant cost. Imagine putting $2,000 on a credit card with a 24% interest rate. If you only make the minimum payment each month, it could take years to pay off that balance, and you’d end up spending hundreds of dollars on interest alone.
This situation creates a ripple effect: money that could go toward savings, investments, or even daily expenses gets swallowed by interest payments. Over time, this can erode your financial security.
The Hidden Costs of Debt
The financial toll of holiday debt is obvious, but the hidden costs—like emotional strain and missed opportunities—are often overlooked.
The Psychological Toll
The financial impact of holiday debt is clear, but there’s another cost that often goes unnoticed: the psychological toll of carrying debt.
Holiday debt doesn’t just weigh on your wallet - it can also affect your mental health. Carrying high levels of debt has been linked to increased stress, anxiety, and even depression. The pressure to meet debt obligations and the feeling of falling behind financially can affect your sleep, mood, and overall well-being.
Here’s how holiday debt can contribute to mental strain:
- Overwhelming Balances - Seeing high balances on your credit card statements can trigger feelings of stress or guilt, particularly when you realize how long it might take to pay off the debt.
- Payment Anxiety - The need to juggle multiple bills, along with the fear of missing payments, can lead to anxiety about your financial future.
- Financial Regret - Many people experience buyer’s remorse after the holidays when they reflect on overspending. The emotional aftermath of realizing that holiday cheer came at a steep financial price can stick with you well into the new year.
Over time, this stress can bleed into other areas of your life, affecting your relationships, productivity, and even your physical health. It’s important to recognize these psychological costs and take proactive steps to manage your debt and mental well-being.
Missed Investment Opportunities and Savings Growth
Another hidden consequence of holiday debt is the opportunity cost - the financial growth you miss out on because your money is tied up in paying off debt rather than building wealth.
Consider the impact of carrying $1,000 of credit card debt into the new year. Instead of investing that money or contributing it to your savings account, you’re spending it on interest payments. Over time, this lost opportunity for saving and investing can significantly affect your long-term financial health.
- Lost Investment Returns - If that $1,000 had been invested in the stock market with an average annual return of 7%, you could have seen significant growth over time. Instead, you’re losing money by paying the credit card company interest.
- Delayed Savings Goals - Holiday debt also delays your ability to save for major goals, such as building an emergency fund, saving for a home, or contributing to retirement accounts.
The longer you carry debt, the more these missed opportunities add up, creating a cycle that keeps you from achieving your financial goals.
Avoiding the Holiday Debt Trap
It’s easy to feel swept up in the season’s excitement, but a little planning can help you enjoy the holidays without the financial hangover.
First, decide how much you can realistically spend on gifts, travel, and celebrations. Include often-overlooked costs like gift wrap, shipping, or holiday outfits. Then, create a gift list and stick to it to prevent impulse buys. And if you use credit, make a plan to pay off the balance in full before interest kicks in.
The Takeaway
Holiday debt may feel like a temporary splurge, but its impact can stretch far into the future.
By planning ahead, setting boundaries, and sticking to your budget, you can enjoy the season’s joys without the January regrets. After all, the holidays are about creating memories, not debt.
But if you do find yourself in debt from holiday spending, remember that you're not alone. This week we'll explore strategies for minimizing the total cost and paying off your holiday debt as quickly as possible.
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The holidays are a time for giving, but they can also leave you with a financial hangover in the form of credit card bills and holiday debt. The good news is that you don't have to carry this debt for months - or even years - if you approach repayment strategically.
By using a combination of smart debt repayment methods, budget adjustments, and perhaps increased income, you can knock out your holiday debt and start the new year with a clean slate.
Whether you're dealing with multiple credit card balances or a single large bill, these strategies will help you stay on track and minimize interest payments.
Debt Snowball Method
The Debt Snowball Method is one of the most popular approaches to paying off debt because it focuses on building momentum. This method involves paying off your smallest debts first while making minimum payments on your more significant debts. By knocking out smaller balances quickly, you gain psychological wins that keep you motivated.
Here's how it works:
- List all your debts from smallest to largest, regardless of interest rates.
- Pay the minimum on all debts except for the smallest one.
- Direct as much extra money as possible toward the smallest debt.
- Once the smallest debt is paid off, move to the next smallest, and so on.
Many people find the Debt Snowball Method effective because it's all about achieving quick wins. By eliminating smaller debts early on, you experience a sense of progress, which can fuel your motivation to tackle larger balances.
This approach is ideal if you struggle with staying motivated to pay off debt or have multiple small balances you want to get rid of quickly. But keep in mind that, depending on the interest rates of various account balances, focusing on the smallest debts first may yield a higher overall cost since the smallest debt doesn't always have the highest interest rate.
Debt Avalanche Method
The Debt Avalanche Method may be a better fit for those more concerned with saving on interest. This strategy focuses on paying off your highest-interest debt first, reducing the overall interest you pay over time.
Here's how it works:
- List all of your debts from highest to lowest interest rate.
- Pay the minimum on all debts except for the one with the highest interest rate.
- Direct as much extra money as possible toward the highest-interest debt.
- Once the highest-interest debt is paid off, move on to the next highest, and so on.
Some prefer this approach since it prioritizes high-interest debts, meaning you minimize the total interest paid. Thus, more of your payments will go toward reducing the principal balance, and your debt will be repaid faster.
The Debt Avalanche Method is ideal for people who want to minimize interest costs, especially if they have large balances with high interest rates.
Budget Adjustments
If paying off debt quickly is a priority, making budget adjustments can free up extra cash to accelerate your repayment. Reallocating your budget may require temporarily cutting back on nonessential spending, but the result is less debt and more financial freedom.
Look for areas in your budget where you can cut back, even if it's just for a few months. Dining out, entertainment, subscriptions, and impulse purchases are common areas where savings can be found. Use the money you save to make extra payments on your debt. For example, if you cut $100 a month from dining out and allocate it toward debt repayment, that's $1,200 a year, directly reducing your balance.
Next, remember that any extra income, such as tax refunds, bonuses, or even gifts, can be used to pay off debt faster. Make it a habit to funnel any unexpected money toward your debt to accelerate your progress.
Another Idea: Increase Income
If cutting back isn't enough to tackle your holiday debt, consider increasing your income through side gigs or freelance opportunities. While not an option for everyone, the additional income earned can provide a boost to your repayment efforts, helping you get out of debt faster.
From driving for rideshare services to freelancing online, your area may have opportunities for extra income. Even a part-time side hustle for a few months can provide significant extra cash to throw at your debt.
Also, many retailers offer seasonal jobs during the holidays, and some employers may provide overtime opportunities. If you are available, taking advantage of these opportunities can boost your debt repayment efforts significantly.
The Takeaway
Paying off holiday debt doesn't have to be a long, drawn-out process. By using strategies like the Debt Snowball or Debt Avalanche methods, adjusting your budget, and exploring additional income opportunities, you can eliminate your debt faster than you might think. The key is to stay focused, be proactive, and prioritize debt repayment in your financial plan.
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After the holiday season, many people find themselves juggling multiple bills and high-interest debts. If managing various credit card balances, personal loans, or other debts feels like a challenge, debt consolidation may be able to help.
Debt consolidation offers a way to streamline the repayment process by combining all your debts into a single payment, potentially lowering your interest rates and helping you pay off your debts faster. But it's not the right solution for everyone. So, let's learn more about debt consolidation, the different consolidation options, and the pros and cons of using consolidation to manage your debt.
What is Debt Consolidation?
Debt consolidation involves combining multiple debts into a single loan or account, often at a lower interest rate. Instead of managing several payments, you make one monthly payment toward the consolidated debt. The goal is to simplify your financial life, save on interest, and pay off your debt faster.
Debt consolidation works by taking out a new loan or balance transfer that pays off your existing debts. You then make payments on this new loan or credit card until the debt is paid in full. The method you choose will depend on your financial situation and the type of debts you have.
Types of Debt Consolidation
There are several ways to consolidate debt, each with benefits and drawbacks. The most common approaches to debt consolidation include:
Debt Consolidation Loans
A debt consolidation loan allows you to combine multiple debts - such as credit cards, medical bills, or personal loans - into one new loan with a single monthly payment. The loan typically has a lower interest rate than your existing debts, which can save you money over time.
To use this option, you apply for a loan from a bank, credit union, or online lender, use the loan to pay off your existing debts, and then repay the loan over a set term.
Balance Transfer Credit Cards
With a balance transfer credit card, you transfer your high-interest balance to a new card offering a lower interest rate, often 0%, for an introductory period (usually 12–18 months). Though fees may apply, this offer can give you time to pay down the debt without accruing interest.
To use this option, you open a new credit card with a promotional balance transfer offer, move your balances to the new card, and aim to pay off the balance before the promotional period ends to avoid high interest rates.
Home Equity Loans
If you own your home, a home equity loan allows you to borrow against the equity in your home to consolidate your debts. These loans often have lower interest rates because your home is used as collateral, but they come with significant risk - if you fail to make payments, you could lose your home.
To use this option, you take out a loan based on the value of your home's equity, use the loan to pay off your debts, and repay the loan over time. The loan could be for a fixed period of time, or it could be a line of credit that offers more flexible payments.
Debt Management Plans (DMPs)
A Debt Management Plan (DMP) is offered through credit counseling agencies. The agency works with your creditors to negotiate lower interest rates and consolidate your debts into a single monthly payment. Unlike a loan, a DMP doesn't involve borrowing money—it's a structured repayment plan.
To use this option, you work with a credit counseling agency, and they arrange a repayment plan with your creditors. You make one payment to the agency each month, and they distribute the funds to your creditors.
Pros of Debt Consolidation
Debt consolidation offers several potential benefits, particularly for those dealing with multiple high-interest debts.
One of the main advantages is that it simplifies your finances. Instead of managing multiple payment due dates and interest rates, you make one single payment each month, making it easier to stay on top of your debts.
And if you qualify for a lower interest rate than what you're currently paying on your credit cards or loans, debt consolidation can save you money over time. The more debt you have, the more significant the savings can be.
Consolidating debt can also have a positive impact on your credit score. By reducing your credit utilization (the percentage of available credit you're using) and making on-time payments, you may see your score improve over time.
Cons of Debt Consolidation
While debt consolidation offers advantages, there are also potential drawbacks to consider.
First, with the exception of Debt Management Plans, these consolidation options involve taking on new credit. And the availability of favorable terms will depend significantly on your income and credit score. So all options won't be available for everyone.
Many debt consolidation options also come with fees. For example, balance transfer credit cards often charge a balance transfer fee (usually 3-5% of the total amount transferred), and debt consolidation loans may have origination fees. These costs can add up and reduce the overall savings you achieve through consolidation.
Also, consolidation doesn't eliminate your debt - it simply reorganizes it. If you don't address the underlying spending habits that led to the debt in the first place, you may end up accumulating more debt on top of what you've consolidated. This is especially risky with balance transfer credit cards, where you may be tempted to use the old cards once the balances are paid off.
Finally, if you consolidate debt with a home equity loan, your home is the collateral. So, by definition, you're putting your home at risk. If you fall behind on payments, the lender can foreclose on your home - a much higher risk to your overall well-being than defaulting on a credit card.
When to Consider Debt Consolidation
Debt consolidation can be a good option for those struggling to manage multiple debts, but it's not always the best solution. Here's when debt consolidation might make sense:
- When you have high-interest debt. If most of your debt is on high-interest credit cards or loans, consolidating to a lower rate can save you money.
- When you're struggling to keep track of payments. If you're missing due dates or struggling to keep track of multiple payments, simplifying your debt into one payment can help.
- When you're committed to paying off your debt. Debt consolidation only works if you're committed to addressing your spending habits and paying off your debt for good. If you're likely to continue overspending, consolidation won't solve the problem.
The Takeaway
Debt consolidation can be a powerful tool for simplifying your finances and reducing your debt burden. However, it's important to carefully weigh the pros and cons before deciding if it's the right option for you. By understanding the types of consolidation available and considering your long-term financial goals, you can make an informed decision that sets you up for success.
Remember, debt consolidation is an advanced strategy that's not without risk. Be sure to fully understand your options and consider speaking with a qualified, independent financial professional for personalized guidance.
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The holiday season can be unpredictable. Between unexpected travel costs, last-minute gifts, and the temptation to overspend, financial surprises are common. That's where an emergency fund comes in.
An emergency fund helps you manage unexpected costs without risking your near-term financial health. Sure, it would be ideal to plan all spending in advance or even have a "holiday spending" savings account. But if not, an emergency fund could be there to help cover these unexpected bills without paying them off over months (and incurring interest charges).
Let's explore how to build and grow your emergency fund, when to use it, and strategies to ensure you're prepared for any holiday surprise.
Building and Growing an Emergency Fund
If you don't already have an emergency fund, the idea of starting one - especially with the "save between three and six month's worth of expenses" guidance we often hear - may seem overwhelming or impossible. But creating this safety net is crucial for protecting yourself from financial stress, both during the holidays and year-round. And you can start small.
Building an emergency fund doesn't have to happen overnight. The key is to start small and be consistent. Here's how to get started:
- Set an initial goal - A good starting point is to aim for $500 to $1,000 in your emergency fund. This amount can cover many minor financial surprises, such as an unexpected car repair or dental bill.
- Contribute consistently -Even if you can only set aside $20 or $50 each paycheck, the important thing is to make consistent contributions. Over time, these small amounts will add up and grow into a larger safety net.
- Increase contributions when possible - Whenever you receive extra income—such as a tax refund, bonus, or even holiday gifts—consider directing a portion of that money into your emergency fund. These windfalls can give your savings a significant boost.
Pro tip: Treat your emergency fund contributions like a regular bill that you pay each month. This way, it becomes part of your routine and less likely to be overlooked.
Once you've hit your initial savings goal, work on building up your fund to cover the three to six months' worth of expenses mentioned above. This larger buffer will provide protection in case of more significant financial disruptions, such as a job loss or major medical issues. Don't worry if it takes time to get there - the key is to keep contributing steadily.
Using the Fund Wisely
An emergency fund is there for financial surprises, but it's essential to use it wisely. Tapping into your savings too often can leave you unprepared when a real emergency strikes.
It can be tempting to dip into your emergency fund for less-than-urgent expenses, especially during the holiday season. However, the fund's purpose is to cover unexpected and necessary expenses that you couldn't have anticipated or budgeted for.
Ideally, you'll use your emergency fund for things like an unexpected car repair, medical bills, or an emergency trip to visit family due to illness. But if you did overspend during the holidays and face the prospect of months of credit card payments, dipping into your fund may be worth it - as long as it doesn't become a habit.
If you do need to use your emergency fund, be sure to replenish it as soon as possible. The goal is to keep your fund available for the next unexpected expense that comes your way.
Setting Savings Goals
When building an emergency fund, it's essential to set specific savings goals based on your financial situation. This step ensures that your fund is large enough to provide a cushion in a financial emergency while the contribution amounts are realistic in relation to your current budget.
Everyone's financial situation is different, so your emergency fund goal should be tailored to your needs. Start by calculating your essential monthly expenses - rent or mortgage, utilities, groceries, insurance, and transportation. Multiply this number by three to six months to determine how much you need to save for a fully funded emergency fund.
If you're like most people, that target feels almost impossible to achieve. So break it down into smaller goals. For example, aim to save enough to cover one month of expenses first, then gradually build toward your larger goal.
Pro tip: Set milestone goals that build over time, such as $500, then $1,000, and then one month of expenses - and celebrate each time you hit a goal! This step can help keep you motivated as you work toward a fully funded emergency fund.
Automating Savings
One of the easiest ways to build your emergency fund is to automate your savings. Automated savings ensure that a portion of your income is directed into your emergency fund regularly without thinking about it. This consistency is key to growing your fund quickly and effectively.
Automating your savings works by minimizing the temptation to skip a month or spend the money elsewhere. Treating your emergency fund as an "expense" ensures that it continues to grow steadily.
Most banks and credit unions allow you to set up automatic transfers from your checking account to your savings account. This way, a set amount of money is transferred into your emergency fund each month or paycheck without requiring you to take any action.
And remember, as your income grows, consider increasing your automated contributions. Even an extra $10 or $20 monthly can speed up your savings growth and bring you closer to your emergency fund goals.
The Takeaway
An emergency fund acts as your financial safety net, helping you manage unexpected expenses without resorting to credit cards or loans.
If you had a surprise with unexpected debt this holiday season, use it as inspiration to get started. That way, you can ensure that you're prepared for whatever financial surprises the holidays - or life - throw your way.
Return to TopManaging Financial Stress During the Holidays
The holiday season is often a time of joy and togetherness. But for many people, it can also be a source of financial stress. Between the pressure to buy gifts, attend (or host) holiday gatherings, and travel to see loved ones, the costs can quickly add up to more than you expected to spend out of control. And with that financial strain often comes anxiety, guilt, and worry about how to make ends meet.
But it doesn't have to be that way. With a few practical strategies, you can minimize financial stress and enjoy the holidays without financial stress dragging you down.
Staying Mindful in the Madness
First things first - your mental well-being matters. When your mind feels calm and in control, it’s a lot easier to handle holiday budgeting and decision-making. Enter: mindfulness.
Mindfulness isn’t about ignoring your stress; it’s about staying present and stopping those runaway financial worries before they spiral. Try these easy techniques:
- Meditation - Got five minutes? That’s all you need. Find a quiet spot, focus on your breathing, and gently guide your thoughts away from money stress. It’s like hitting the reset button for your brain.
- Deep Breathing - When the anxiety creeps in, try this: inhale for four counts, hold for four, and exhale for four. Repeat until you feel more grounded. Bonus—it’s free!
- Body Scanning - Close your eyes and mentally check in with your body, head to toe. Notice where you’re holding tension (hello, shoulders) and consciously relax those muscles.
These quick, simple habits can make a huge difference. You’ll approach your holiday to-dos with a clearer, calmer mindset—and maybe even enjoy the process.
Setting Boundaries
The holidays often come with social obligations - gift exchanges, parties, and gatherings - that can stretch anyone's budget. Setting healthy boundaries around these expectations is essential for protecting your financial health.
Here's how you can establish boundaries:
- Limit Gift-Giving - Getting caught up in the cycle of buying gifts for everyone is easy, but this can lead to unnecessary financial strain. Set a gift-giving budget and stick to it.
- Say No When Necessary - You don't have to attend every holiday event or participate in every gift exchange. Politely declining some invitations can help you stay within your budget.
- Set Expectations - Take an honest look at what you can afford this holiday season. Don't feel pressured to meet unrealistic expectations—whether it's buying expensive gifts or hosting elaborate gatherings.
Boundaries aren’t about being stingy; they’re about protecting your peace - and your finances. Being clear about what you can and can't afford can prevent stress and unplanned debt.
Coping with Financial Anxiety
Financial anxiety can creep up during the holiday season, especially when you're worried about overspending or feeling pressure to keep up with others. Fortunately, there are techniques you can use to manage these feelings and regain control over your finances.
One effective way to manage financial anxiety is through cognitive-behavioral strategies - challenging negative thoughts and replacing them with more balanced, realistic ones.
For example, if you start feeling anxious about your finances, ask yourself if those thoughts are based on reality or fear. If you think, "I'll never be able to afford gifts for everyone," challenge that thought by asking, "Is this true? Can I find creative ways to give meaningful gifts without breaking the bank?"
Things you can't control - like inflation or unexpected expenses - can often be a source of anxiety. So consider focusing on what you can control. You might not be able to change the cost of airfare or holiday inflation, but you can set a realistic budget and tackle one category at a time—gifts, travel, food. Breaking it down makes it feel way less overwhelming.
Setting Realistic Expectations
The holidays often involve spending time with family and friends, which can lead to financial expectations that don't align with your budget. Setting clear expectations (for yourself and others) can make the season a lot more enjoyable.
Here’s how to have those sometimes-awkward money talks:
- Be Honest but Kind - Let your friends and family know you're working within a budget this holiday season. You don't need to go into great detail about your finances - explain that you'll be prioritizing more meaningful, less costly ways to celebrate this year.
- Suggest Alternatives - If gift-giving or expensive gatherings are a part of your holiday traditions, suggest lower-cost alternatives. For example, propose a Secret Santa gift exchange instead of buying gifts for everyone or suggest a potluck meal to share the cost of hosting.
- Focus on the Positive - Shift the conversation to what you are excited about - like cozy movie nights, homemade treats, or exploring festive (and free!) local events.
The sooner you communicate your budget limits, the better. It's also possible that others in your family feel the same way!
The Takeaway
Financial stress can rear its head during the holidays, but remember - the holidays aren't about how much you spend. They're about connection, gratitude, and celebrating the moments that matter most.
So give yourself permission to step back, focus on what really matters, and embrace a holiday season that’s joyful - and financially stress-free.
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